As a child growing up with cerebral palsy, I was anything but proud of it!  Because like many people with disabilities, I’d try to hide my impairment for fear of unkindness…

Luckily, nowadays, we’re in an era, whereby we hopefully endure less torment; we’re a far more accepting and inclusive society.

Actually, back then, the staff at my old schools weren’t even informed that I had CP; so, I had to act as though I were able-bodied, which presented its pitfalls.

Interestingly, there were two different outcomes as a result of doing so; of course, firstly some folk simply assumed that I was stupid, – since physical impairments used to make people jump to assumptions.

But secondly, (which I might add, took years to dawn on me, and was heavily helped by societal attitude changes), was a new growing sense of gratitude and pride.

Whilst I can walk, my original prognosis stated that I’d not be able to, or indeed talk. I learned to do both aged three, so I used this as my point of strength: when I regressed my mind to the outgoing me then; it enabled me to siphon off my toddler determination, utilising it in real time.

Additionally, by casting my mind back to before I could do either, made me feel humble, for those with CP, who cannot sadly talk or, walk.

I still count my blessings every morning when I wake up.

Moreover, it encouraged me further to “collect” other people with far worse impairments than me; since my disability only affects one side of my body, and make them my unofficial mentors.

The gumption and determination of such people like Mark Ormrod, MBE, makes me recall that those of us with physical disadvantages enjoy a great sense of mental wellness: we have been through many life storms. Mark, an ex-Royal Marine, is a prime example to us; he is a triple amputee survivor, and yet, he is an author, motivational speaker, and Invictus Games athlete!

When we become mindful about how lucky we all are, by simply being human; that we have the most sophisticated brain of all the species, this is truly where the source of pride comes from.

We are all capable of growing into the best versions of ourselves.

All humans should treat one another with love and respect; and perhaps, if you are having a challenging day, then take some time out collect some of your own mentors.

Inspirational people are everywhere in society, and seeing others worse off physically than ourselves instantly fills our hearts with pride.

 

I hope this helps.

SUNNY wishes,

Emma x