If, as a child you had no mummy to share your concerns and worries with, then you are likely to have glitches in your coping techniques. But, on the flip-side, because as a kid- you had to solve your own problems; then albeit hidden under brain dust: you still have this own grown ability to [...]

It’s only dawned on me recently, that if we’ve never known maternal nurturing, then we have no idea that it’s even missing in our lives! Yet it’s very constructive, and handy stuff to grow. It’s giving of self: bouncy inside tummy smiles. It’s the joyous sensation of feeling lighter- in-step, as we go about our [...]

There’s nothing better than evoking a smile on a a baby’s face; and when they’re older, to make them laugh. Those first giggles- that cause popping candy-like tingles in your tummy. The fizzy feeling on your cheeks: knowing that you’ve made them feel content, that they’re responding happily, is utterly blissful. When my daughter was [...]

Often the invisible restraints of an unhealthy childhood: portcullis us, in our adulthood. We don’t know why, but something seems to prevent acting on a dream, or goal that we want to achieve. They are the echoes of limited belief: bestowed on us by our abusers. The likelihood is that you don’t even notice such [...]

Similarly to a sun-deprived plant, we humans must adapt and bend: if we’ve never known the light of maternal nurturing. We must create our own sunshine. As consummate actors, despite our gnarled branches, it’s often the case that we become great achievers,’ as doting parents, or in our careers and passions. We have an extra [...]